• 8 Benefits of Integrity in Life and Leadership

    Blog | Charles Stone | February 21, 2017

    8 Benefits of Integrity in Life and Leadership

    Charles Stone

    Integrity is taking a beating today.

    ·  20 baseball players potentially being suspended for doping

    ·  Lance Armstrong being stripped of all his awards for lying

    ·  The IRS apparently misusing its power

    ·  The Justice Department being accused of lying

    ·  Identity theft occurring to 1 out of 10 people

  • When To Begin A Family Vision

    Blog | Robert and Lori Ferguson | February 16, 2017

    Parenting is hard. As our children were growing up, we knew that our two were not the same - they were unique. One loved structure and having all the details listed before taking action. The other child embraced detours, and felt empowered with a loose framework filled with options. Raising these two different children called for different parenting techniques.

  • I Will Always Love You…

    But some days I may not like you!

    Blog | Kim Rider | February 14, 2017

    I love you! This all familiar phrase is probably used hundreds…maybe even thousands of times a day.  I love….my dog, my cat, my kids, my significant other, selfies, chocolate, running, football, sweet tea, binge watching….and the list goes on.  What exactly are we saying when we say we love something?

  • Megan Pacheco

    Leadership and Unclear Expectations

    3 Simple Ways to Set and Manage Expectations

    Blog | Megan Pacheco | February 09, 2017

    The following scenario has played out in homes thousands of times, I’m sure. It certainly has in mine. Let me set the stage.

    When my husband and I brought our newborn baby home from the hospital, the joy and excitement seemed unending—until the routine of nightly wake-up calls began.

  • Expecting Results

    Blog | Christine Vogelsang | February 07, 2017

    “So, when are my pictures coming back?”

    In the days before digital photography, we used disposable cameras in our family. I had given one to Jacob, our six-year-old son, to use on vacation, his first independent picture taking experience.

    “Well, they’ll come back when I take the camera in to get the pictures developed. Just give it to me and I’ll take care of it.”

    I could tell from his downcast expression that something was amiss.

    “Oh. I threw it away last week. You said it was disposable.”

  • Phyllis


    Blog | Phyllis Hennecy Hendry | February 02, 2017

    It was an ordinary day. I had a 6:15 a.m. flight out of Greenville, SC.  After security and on the way to my gate, I stopped by a shop to get a bottle of water.  I went to the cashier to pay and it was at that moment that ordinary became extraordinary.  I spoke to the cashier – a small woman who was doing all she could to be polite and efficient.  I asked her, “How are you today?” There was a pause. She responded, “I’m ok.”  “Just ok?” I asked. “Yes,” she said.  The next question out of my mouth just came, unintended, bare and raw, waiting to be answered.

  • Resolutions

    When You Fall Off the Horse, Get Back on

    Blog | Owen Phelps | February 01, 2017

    We’re not even to the start of the second month of the New Year and already I have to ask: Do you still have any resolutions left to keep?

    Pardon the rude question. It’s really a matter of projecting my own weaknesses on the world. For most of my 69 years, my experience has been that I could break resolutions just as fast as I could make them.

    That’s right. Some haven’t even survived a day. Most drifted off into a thick haze before the start of February. A little research tells me I’m not alone in this regard.

  • Critics: Stay Away or Draw Close to Them?

    Blog | Charles Stone | January 19, 2017

    Criticism hurts, especially the non-constructive kind. We tend to stay away from such critics. But is that the wisest choice? Should we draw close to them instead of pulling away from them?

    Murray Bowen, the father of family systems, coined the phrase “non-anxious presence.” He used this term to describe a personal quality that when a leader exhibits it, can keep a family or a group’s overall emotional reactivity and anxiety down. He and others suggest that leaders should not cut off their critics, but should actually stay connected to them in a calm way.

  • Restore the Wonder

    Blog | Sheryl Giesbrecht | January 17, 2017

    “Christians should be the most wonder-filled people in the world,” says writer Matthew Woodley. God created us to wonder. Wonder is an emotion aroused primarily by being in amazement. Wonder used as a verb is to notice, to marvel, and to be amazed. For some, the opposite may be our tendency. We are in a time crunch; we feel pressured to accomplish all that is on our plate, resulting in depression, sadness, exhaustion, or mood swings. The problem may be that we have forgotten how to wonder. Toddlers have an uncanny sense of marveling over even the smallest creature in creation.