“It’s not fair!” “Life’s not fair!”
As either an adult, parent or child, each one of us has said those words to ourselves, our children or others. We truly believed that what had happened to us or around us was not fair.
Dictionary.com defines fair as “in accordance with the rules or standards; legitimate.” This begs the question, of course, who’s rules and standards?! For most of us, 'who' generally means our perspective whatever that might be!