The Worrying and Fearful Leader
The Worrying and Fearful Leader
Worry and anxiety can stifle the effectiveness of the best leader. In my life, when anxiety gets the best of me, my leadership always suffers. So what goes on in the mind of a leader when he or she worries and what can we do about it? Consider these suggestions.
When we feel anxious, a process in our brain starts because God created our brains to help us survive. When we feel threatened and anxious from a roar we hear outside our tent while camping or from a roar from a nasty email, it initiates a flight-fight response in our bodies.
Worry and fear show up in our bodies in several ways:
- Our heart rate and breathing increases.
- Our pupils dilate.
- Saliva production slows (that’s behind dry mouth when we feel anxious or fearful before we speak).
- Our muscles can tighten (many of us carry our tension in our shoulder muscles and neck).
- We can feel goosebumps (think of how you feel when you hear the ‘bump’ in the night).
- We get that ‘anxious’ feeling (norepinephrine, also known as adrenalin, is released in our bloodstream as a hormone and into our nervous system as a neurotransmitter).
- Memory, decision making, motivation, and attention get diminished (our fear center hogs our limited mental resources).
I love how Martin Laird, a college professor and writer, uses the metaphor of a mountain’s response to weather to picture how we should respond to unpleasant emotions. He bases his thoughts on Psalms 125:1. Those who trust in the LORD are like Mount Zion, which cannot be shaken but endures forever.
Mt. Zion symbolizes God’s power, blessing, and protection. So, when we trust in the Lord and redirect our thinking and our attention, we are like a mountain and how it responds to weather.
A mountain has weather around it all the time. The mountain does not become the weather. It simple observes it. In Jesus, we are like that mountain with all kinds of external and internal weather around us. Now we may prefer certain kinds of weather, but we are not the weather.
Your anxious thoughts and emotions are not you.
They are simply the weather.
The marvelous world of thoughts, sensation, emotions, and inspiration, the spectacular world of creation around us, are all patterns of stunning weather on the holy mountain of God. But we are not the weather. We are the mountain. Weather is happening—delightful sunshine, dull sky, or destructive storm—this is undeniable. But if we think we are the weather happening on Mount Zion (and most of us do precisely this with our attention riveted to the video [of our internal world, my addition]), then the fundamental truth of our union with God remains obscured … When the mind is brought to stillness (what Paul calls thinking on these things [(Philippians 4:8)]) we see that we are the mountain and not the changing patterns of weather appearing on the mountain. [Laird, Martin (2006-06-07). Into the Silent Land: A Guide to the Christian Practice of Contemplation (Kindle Locations 287-293). Oxford University Press. Kindle Edition]
So, paying attention to our thoughts and emotions is essential for good leadership. If we don’t pay attention to our inner world, we become captive to it and blinded to its potential negative effects upon our souls and upon our leadership.
Paul talked about how we change our thinking in his second letter to the Corinthian church. He said, “We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” – 2 Corinthians 10:5
What has helped you deal with worry and anxiety?
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